When a Mother's Heart Breaks Open

When Laura first came to me, she was struggling with something many moms silently carry:

A disconnect with her teenage daughter.

Conversations felt like walking on eggshells. Every interaction ended in tension, silence, or slammed doors. And behind it all was a deep ache: Why can’t I reach her anymore?

We started with Laura—her emotions, her triggers, her longing to show up differently. But something nudged me to check in on her daughter, too.

I asked, “Does she have any digestive issues?”

Laura blinked. “Actually… yes. She’s been complaining about stomach pain. I thought it was just stress.”

That opened the door.

Using proxy energy healing, I connected to her daughter’s energy field.
What we uncovered was a tangle of inherited beliefs—stories passed down from generations:
→ “I’m not safe to express how I feel.”
→ “If I open my heart, I’ll be rejected.”
→ “Connection isn’t consistent, so don’t get too close.”

Whew.

No wonder she was struggling to connect. Her nervous system had built a fortress of self-protection.  Plus she had a Heart Wall with her Mother.

As we cleared these inherited emotions, something began to shift.

But here’s the part many don’t talk about:  While her daughter was releasing old wounds, Laura had to face her own.

I coached her through her fears of saying the wrong thing, of not being enough, of carrying guilt from the past. We worked through the invisible walls she’d built around her own heart.

And when both hearts softened something beautiful happened.

They started truly “seeing” each other again.
With less defensiveness and more grace.
With a thread of understanding they hadn’t felt in years.

Today, their relationship is closer, safer, and more emotionally honest than it’s ever been.

This is the power of healing and coaching together.  It’s not just about changing behavior—it’s about healing the pattern beneath it.  It’s how true connection is rebuilt… not from control or performance, but from compassion and understanding.

Because when you uncover the real root—emotional, spiritual, even inherited—you stop reacting from pain and start relating from love.

That’s when relationships transform.